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Haddonfield Group Puts 'Christmas' Back Into Tree Lighting Ceremony

Perfect weather brought hundreds to Library Point to kick off the holiday season.

 

Hundreds gathered at Haddonfield's Library Point Nov. 23 to watch the lighting of the tree formerly known as the Holiday Tree. Only a few spectators heard about the event sponsor's request to change the name from a holiday tree lighting to a Christmas tree lighting. 

"The name change from holiday tree to Christmas tree was a general consensus of the association members," Ken Tomlinson, the committee chair of the lighting ceremony for the Haddonfield Celebrations Association, said. "The town solicitor researched it and learned that a private group holding a tree lighting is permitted to call the celebration a Christmas tree lighting."  

Mayor Tish Colombi said that the Christmas tree lighting was the same as always. The only difference was the Celebrations Association, the donor-supported group that pays for the tree lighting ceremony and several other town events, requested that it be called a Christmas tree lighting.

"Mario Iavicoli, our borough attorney, said that if a private group puts on an event, they, just like the menorah lighting supporters and the crèche supporters, may call the event what it is," Colombi explained.

Some spectators were under the impression the borough sponsors the tree lighting, but for decades the Haddonfield Celebrations Association has coordinated and sponsored the tree lighting and Santa parade.

"Years ago this was called a Christmas Tree lighting ceremony and then political correctness changed things," Tomlinson said. "Since Iavicoli said the association can change it back to the original name of the event, the group decided to change the name, but not the event." 

Residents, Santa voice their opinion

One woman, who declined to provide her name, said "it wasn't the word 'Christmas' that surprised me but the addition of a prayer to the annual tree lighting ceremony." Before the tree was lit, Mayor Colombi read a prayer for peace as fellow commissioners Ed Borden and Jeff Kasko stood next to her.

Daniel Grayberg, the new choral director at Haddonfield Memorial High School said the choir added "Angels We Have Heard on High" to the traditional "Carol of the Bells" that it sings at the ceremony each year. Coming from a Christian educational background, Grayberg said, "Either way, it doesn't bother me what the tree is called."

Allison Sparrow, a member of the high school choir, said "I have attended the tree lighting ceremony since fourth grade and always thought it was a Christmas tree lighting ceremony."

John Tesch responded without hesitation, "I'm in favor of the name change to Christmas."

"It is a Christmas tree and should be called that," agreed John Rihl, of Haddonfield. "If people are offended by a Christmas tree, they should not be here tonight."

Haddonfield's Dana Mower of Haddonfield opined, "Holiday, Christmas, it doesn't matter—it's all commercial," while Phillip Otto, also of Haddonfield, said, "Calling the tree a Christmas tree is not fair to other non-Christmas celebrating individuals. (It) should be a tree for all to celebrate."

Even Santa had something to say about changing the name of the tree back to Christmas, "It is a good idea. This is Christmas time, kids want Christmas gifts and Christmas dinner and I put gifts under their Christmas tree." 

By the size of the crowd that followed the Santa parade from Library Point to Kings Court, Santa has a lot of bright eyed children looking forward to gifts under their Christmas tree this year. Kings Court was wall-to-wall with families waiting their turn to tell Santa what they want this year as the pick up band played Christmas carols. The sidewalks were crowded as shoppers enjoyed the first evening of candlelight shopping.

Josh Lloret, a senior at Haddonfield Memorial High School, concluded, "It's proper, there is nothing wrong with it since there are no other holidays in December that use a tree."

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Related Topics: Christmas, Haddonfield Christmas tree, Ken Tomlinson, Santa, Tish Colombi, and Tree Lighting

Jeff H

10:45 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012

Sparsely attended, perhaps the spring-like weather?

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HaddonGirl

10:13 pm on Saturday, November 24, 2012

It's about time the name of this event was returned to what it actually is -- a Christmas Tree lighting. Those who prefer "holiday tree" must then also call it the lighting of the "holiday candelabra" later next month, no? A menorah is a menorah and a Christmas tree is a Christmas tree. Let's not try to "universalize" them.

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Jersey GIrl

9:27 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

I am so proud of Haddonfield for doing the right thing! The fact is.....It is a Christmas Tree, not a holiday tree! No other religions use a tree to celebrate their holiday. I do NOT celebrate "Happy Holiday's", my family celebrates Christmas! Why should the majority of Americans be made to feel they are being discriminated against and made to feel that it is inappropriate to use the word "Christmas".

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Maryann Campling

4:26 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012

Look for the beautiful creche that will soon be on display near the Christmas tree....donated by "Citizens for a Christian Christmas." Merry Christmas everyone!

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Olive Soup

2:57 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Yes, Jersey Girl, Christians sure are discriminated against in this town. Not a day goes by when I don't see a Christian getting turned away for pizza at Villa Rosa, or Christian students not being allowed to sit in the same classrooms as other students, or Christians being forced to ride in the back of PATCO. I see it all the time! How dare you use the word "discriminate".

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Jersey GIrl

12:48 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012

Discrimination takes many forms - even reverse discrimination...... My child was made to feel ashamed of her religion and who she was. She was told that she could not draw a picture of a Christmas tree or use red and green, as if she was doing somethig contriversial or bad ( although these really do not embrace the true meaning of the holiday). Yet, there was a Happy Hannuka, Happy Kwanza and Happy Ramadan sign in her elementary school - along with "Happy Holidays". We do NOT celebrate Happy Holidays. NO CHILD should be made to feel ashamed of who they are or excluded, for any reason. Yes this is discrimination in its worst form, becasue poeple look the other way and it is acceptablefor a few to bully the majority. MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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Olive Soup

8:38 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012

Jersey Girl - You're a liar. That story never happened with your kid. What grade and who was the teacher?

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F. Stone

1:48 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Dear Olive,

Something very similar happened to my child when she was in first grade. The class parents were told to remove all red and green candies that were part of an art project. My daughter wanted to use red and green buttons on her snowman but her teacher, Miss Lynch, thought red and green was "too Christian." This happened while living in Voorhees and attending a public school. Yes, religious discrimination is alive and well in Camden County. I recommend everyone should cherish living in a town that permits organizations to celebrate their specific beliefs. Between the Christmas tree, the creche and the menorah, children will be able to learn to respect different religious choices friends make.

There is not one right religion, but there are enough options that everyone can make a decision and select the religion that is right for them.

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Olive Soup

9:52 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Of course there is only one right religion (or no religion). Only one is right. This idea that multiple religions can be right is ridiculous. You are either praying to the right god or you are not. You either believe in the real story or you do not.

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