I meet people all the time. I’m not alone in this. You do too. But, do we take the time to even pay attention? Today alone, I’ve probably had some type of exchange with at least twenty new-to-my-life people. And sadly enough (or not, depending on how things went), it may be the first and last time for some of them. I don’t want these exchanges, even the fleeting ones, to be all for naught.
I’m making a choice to learn from strangers. Whether I end up enlightened or appalled, I'm at least going to pay attention enough to gain something. I'm determined to turn these random sentences uttered by baristas, grandfathers, shoppers, and anyone else I meet into something more useful.
I bet you’d like to know where I intend on meeting these people. I live in South Jersey, which I enjoy for the most part. If I moved away from Jersey, you’d find me living on the southern coast of Maine. I'm a cold weather gal. I have a few jobs and as long as I can remember, I’ve always had a few jobs. Currently, I work in a public relations position, based in a retail setting, which provides opportunities to meet many, many, many strangers. I’m also the head of an editing and writing support company, The Writing Blueprint, and I am an adjunct professor. I like teaching college age students. The thought of teaching students who still eat paste makes me shudder.
I may meet my strangers at one of these jobs. However, I'll be sure to be on stranger watch in my down time as well. I’m just as likely to meet interesting folks at a coffee shop, while hunting, in line at Wawa, at a yoga class, or at a used book shop. I think opportunities will probably present themselves at bars, waiting rooms, and the DMV.
So, The Stranger I Met Today (and hopefully some bits of wisdom) is here. Hello world, it’s a new blog.
szigo
4:19 pm on Friday, August 17, 2012
Do you want a copy of your receipt for your records?
Angela Speakman
2:02 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012
Suz,
I'm sure that my varied customer service experience will present lessons from strangers too. Thanks for checking out the West Deptford Patch site. There's a new blog post today. Be sure to check it out!
Terry
9:05 pm on Friday, August 17, 2012
Interesting idea for a blog. I look forward to reading about your encounters. I'm sure it'll encourage your readers to be more open to strangers that cross their path too.
Angela Speakman
2:01 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012
Thanks for your comments, Terry. You can learn so much about other people, even if sometimes is just assumptions. I look forward to your feedback in the future. Happy reading.
Michelle Wolfson
12:58 am on Saturday, August 18, 2012
Great idea for a blog! I also hold "a few jobs". One of them being a blogger. I have had one successful blog for almost 6 years. Another for a little over a year now. I see so many new blogs every month. Some stand the test of time, some not so much. But the internet is saturated with them. I rarely see something come along that I haven't seen a thousand times before. This is unique. I like it!
Angela Speakman
1:59 pm on Monday, August 20, 2012
Thanks Michelle. I'm really having a lot of fun writing the posts. I was trying to promote a concept that's a little different, but one that people can relate to. Any feedback is welcome. Can you send me the link to your blogs so I can check it out? Happy reading.
Von Lechner
3:55 pm on Friday, August 24, 2012
It's an interesting concept, for sure. It takes a real people-person to pull it off. If someone talks to me, I'll respond, but usually I won't talk to strangers, and that's probably why I have lots of acquaintances but no friends outside of cyberspace. I wrote a blog article about it.